People get married to
help each other. So if my boy marries a beautiful, healthy, rich woman, then he
is not a Buddhist. My boy should marry someone whom he can help [lead a
relation of mutual help]. So I told him he should marry a girl he likes, even if the villagers think she is plain and dumb.. He should not
consider appearances. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------------Excerpt from Tony Artino's notes of a Shunryu Suzuki lecture 66-11-09 as found on shunryusuzuki.com. Edited by DC - Shunryu Suzuki lecture excerpts on cuke.com - from there links to much more. - Go to cuke.com What's New [now at blogger] to see more daily posts.
